What is communication?
When is needed to defined communication, most speakers think of “to inform”, “to let you know” or “information”. Communication is understood as a process based on four basic components: transmitter, channel, information and the receiver (Fig. 1). Summary of the process consists of transferring or sending information from the receiver to the sender. This basic model should be expanded, however, because the communication never ends with the simple acquisition or reception of information. First there not should be omitted the flowing of information and in revers (feedback) because communication is done only to obtain a response. Second, communication is an intentional process: the transmitter transmits information to receiver through a channel in order to produce certain effects on the receptor. Thirdly, all this “deployment” would not be fully effective unless it would be given such importance to code and decode the message. Fourthly, we must not ignore the possibility of errors in coding or decoding, and interference of disturbing factors. All these elements will diminish the success of communication.
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Fig.1. Flow diagram of communication
The message is the basic unit of communication, actually located at the intersection of communication and representation of reality. It may consist of written or spoken words, visual images, music, noise, signs, symbols, colors, gestures, etc. … Physical support is provided to the channel message, performing the functions of transmission or distribution by the message. The originality of the message is given by information.
In terms of quantity the information can be measured both of the time of transmission and at the moment of reception so that they could determine whether or not a message contains more information than another. In a bid to ensure the accuracy of the message, the transmitter may be concerned about the issue of a greater amounts of information than they should be naturally. This gives redundancy, “surplus letters selectively to those which would have been required to carry the same amount of originality.” This surplus should be understood as “a measure of shape, because the information did not indicate the difference between what is transmitted and what is necessary.”
Effects of communication can be cognitive, affective and behavioral responses and should not be confused with the message received. The answer is a message returned by the receiver in response to the stimulus sent by the transmitter, and sometimes can come even on the transmitter in response to his message. The purpose of the communication process exists to the extent that the transmitter encoded message is decoded and accepted by the receiver. Code knowledge information requires respecting the signs and symbols used, and any errors can be easily detected and corrected. When the meaning is encoded in words, the message type is one word and communication is verbal. If the meaning is carried through more than words, the message and communication are non-verbal. The content and manner in which is communicated are under the influence of context. Assessment involves analysis of several contextual dimensions: physical, temporal, cultural, social and psychological. Comprehension ability of the receiver should never be ignored and the message must be carefully constructed.
For people, the relationships created by communication sometimes matter more than the information content transmitted, so that its role is to create fellowship and community.
Language
Language is any system or set of signs that allows the expression or communication.
Language is (common sense) particular social product of the faculty of language, the necessary conventions of communication, information exchange adopted more or less conventional speakers by a company to perform the function through speech.
We can say that language was invented to allow people to communicate their thoughts, and for that speech should be an array of thought, grammatical structures had to be some sort of copy of intellectual structures. Subordination of the communication function of representation has been called into doubt the comparatists. Applying the principle of economy in communication usually causes constant phonetic erosion which may be unrecognizable grammatical structures. So the language “evolved”, although increasingly responding to the needs of communication, no longer claim to adequacy in relation to the structures of thought, thus losing its representative function.
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Fig. 2. Diagram of language
Human intellect built his language trying to build up a representation of his own image, “thus taking in his own possession by an act of reflection becoming not only possible but necessary.”
Forms of communication
From the standpoint of conventional psychology, we have two forms of communication:
- Verbal communication uses language as a code word, which is the most sophisticated system of meanings used by the members of a society. Words (vocabulary) and rules of operation with the meaning (grammar) make possible not only communication but also the development of human intellect; in the learning process, logical thinking is formed by understanding the implications, the relations expressed through concepts, judgments. Verbal communication may be oral (auditory analyzer addresses) or written (visual analyzer).
- Nonverbal communication
Along with verbal communication, each participant in the communication process uses a series of other codes, nonverbal, that are meant to accompany and shade the meanings, to contextualize them, in general to facilitate the understanding of the transmitter*s intentions. Each child learns through imitation and and impregnation before the language codes, a series of value-expressive elements of communication (nonverbal symbols) that the participants in a culture use as a “language” default, meaning that there is no need to describe someone or try to teach children explicitly.
According to the report by the collecting information in the context of the receiver types of communication, in oral communication are:
- 7% words;
- 38% paralanguage (mainly voice intonation and inflection);
- 55% non-verbal language.
This percentage has been established in the mid 70s by A. Mehrabin and M. Weiner in Decoding of Inconsistent Communication.
Adopting the rules of verbal and nonverbal communication, the person specifies the position which adopts in the social interaction and his desire to be treated in accordance with this position by the other participants in communication. Peculiarities of a group of nonverbal communication is essential for a person from outside who wants to effectively communicate with its members. It is known how experienced teachers when speaking students, take not only language but also the elements of nonverbal communication (gestures, mimicry, etc…) their family, making it easier to be accepted and listened, just because the recipients of communication perceive them as close, “popular”.
Communication adult – child
- Have we forgotten that we were children?
- How would our child look over 18 years when he reaches the age of youth? Will he be doing? Will he be a young motivated, determined?
- What we want to become our child? Can be a wrong question. What is best for him?
- What he wants? If 20 years ago we all saw us doctors, actors, engineers, what our children want today?
We live surrounded by rules, formalism, information more or less useful. We are under pressure to be responsible, capable, interested in our own careers. We forget to live as real. We turn our children into adults, asking them to do everything that we could not, we provide them an efficient education, but we forget that they are children, they learn by playing, they want a story not necessarily mathematics lessons.
What a child wants?
- to be Spiderman or Spies
- to be Ben 10 or Barbie
- to be in the spotlight
- to be free and not coerced
- to have happy and fulfilled parents
- to enter into a dream world where everything is possible
- to be their birthday every day
- to receive one toy every week
- to be invited to parties for children
- to do during a day all we do in a week
Many times, beyond theory, adult-child communication loses its spontaneity and are accessible only to an exchange of requests, denials, threats and conditionality which they make them mutually.
The child, most often is educated in a manner devoid of flexibility, so that parents do not know what to do or do not have energy do do anything. If we are talking about a child with special needs that require more attention and patience, the experience shows that in parent-child relationship we often face problems such as family members need to communicate because they often are marginalized. They need emotional support and understanding because may appear the fatigue, anxiety and disillusionment